How Long Should I Wait to RSVP to a Wedding?

When you think of weddings, what comes to mind first besides the actual reception? Well, you’ll either have to purchase a new outfit, buy a gift, or try to remember where you put that invitation — but what about actually RSVP-ing on the big day? Better yet, what if you’re not entirely sure if you’ll be attending the wedding? While there is no written rule about how quickly you should RSVP, here are some things to keep in mind before making your move.

Attending
If you decided to attend the wedding, then congratulations: you’re in for a wonderful time! However, if you’re not sure when you’re going to RSVP to the hosts, then it’s best to keep in mind a specific, unscripted time frame. Over at The Knot, they strongly recommend that you should RSVP no later than a few weeks before the big day — preferably two-to-three weeks. This will not only show your hosts proper wedding etiquette, but it will also give them enough notice. Now, if you’re not attending the wedding (whether you chose not to or had a conflicting arrangement), then there’s a different protocol.

Not Attending
As we mentioned earlier, whether you’re not able to attend the wedding due to personal reasons (which is perfectly normal, especially if you barely know the hosts or haven’t seen them for a while), or you have a prior arrangement that day/night, it’s best to let the hosts know as soon as possible. The reason being is that not only will it give them enough time to invite a replacement if needed, but it will also give them enough time to remove a plate at the table before they create their seating chart.

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